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The user is asking me for money. Can I give it to them?
No. Never send money to people you don't know! If someone is asking for money or offers to receive money it is scam! Remember that many scammers are really good psychologists and know what to say in order to get some of your money.
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| Online dating and love |
 Online dating and love
There are thousands of people, just like you, who are looking for love on the Internet – and finding it! Recent statistics show that 20% of all new relationships start online. One of the most common ways to meet other singles over the Internet is through a free online dating site, or free personal ads. These provide a quick and easy way to make a connection with that special someone.
Despite the convenience of meeting people through free personal ads or a free online dating site, there are some drawbacks for you to consider. Since they're free, these sites can often attract people who have no interest in meeting or don't know what they want. 99% of the people who use dating sites are trying to make a connection just like you, but there are a few bad apples anywhere you go. To avoid wasting your time or putting yourself in unsafe situations, it's important to use caution when online dating. Here are some simple tips to maximize your experience, and some potential red flags to watch out for:
Start by searching online for free personal ads or dating sites. When you find a free online dating site that looks good to you, join up and fill out your profile details. Make sure to include a recent, honest photo of yourself that you find flattering. Once your profile is all set up, you can wait for people to contact you, or start browsing profiles to find people who interest you.
When you start receiving contact from other members of the free online dating site you're using, take it slowly. Start by chatting through messages, or a chat room within your dating site. Ask questions to feel the other person out, and don't be afraid to part ways if you don't like their answers. This will keep you both from wasting time with someone incompatible.
When you feel comfortable, you can then move on to independent contact methods like your personal email or instant messaging. To make sure that someone's photo is up to date, ask for another recent one or suggest chatting with webcams to see what he or she looks like. It's a good idea to chat through the free online dating site and other online communication methods before giving out your phone number or agreeing to meet in person.
Before sharing personal information like your last name, phone number or address, make sure you feel comfortable with your new potential partner. Watch out for anyone who makes you feel bad about yourself, gets angry too easily or seems mentally unstable in any way. Refusing to talk on the phone or seeming “shady” when discussing their living arrangements is often a huge red flag, and may mean that your potential mate is already in a committed relationship. You should also be cautious with people who evade or ignore your questions, as this can mean they have something to hide.
When the time comes to meet offline, make sure you feel good about it. It's never too late to change your mind, and anyone who's really interested in meeting you will understand you feeling jittery. Make sure to meet in a well-lit, very public place such as a busy restaurant for your first few meetings or dates, and arrange your own transportation. Notify a close friend or family member of your plans, and give them the necessary details about when you're going and with whom.
Using free personal ads or an online dating site is a great way to meet someone, but use your common sense! The potential for a great new relationship isn't worth risking your personal safety or well-being. Be responsible when meeting up with people you've met online, and you'll greatly improve your chances of making a connection with real people who are worth your heart.
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