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Do Women Send "Signals" When They Like You?
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Here are a couple of questions I hear very often:
QUESTION:
"I'M A DECENT LOOKING GUY BUT IT SEEMS THAT THE REALLY HOT WOMEN ARE LOOKING TO MEET A REALLY GOOD LOOKING GUY. HOW CAN I COMPETE?"
Whenever I get questions like this, I know EXACTLY what's going on.
It's called Analysis Paralysis.
There's so much activity going on your head, analyzing yourself, comparing yourself to other guys, etc., that you start to doubt yourself.
And when you get into a state of self-doubt, it's harder and harder to get yourself to take action.
And taking more action with women is what 90% of guys need to do to improve their results.
In fact, you'll find that most of your challenges with women EVAPORATE once you double or triples the amount of action you're currently taking.
There's a saying: "The Universe Rewards Action."
So while most guys are busy being self-conscious about whether or not they have the looks to "pull" pretty women, a few other guys (many of whom are even WORSE looking) are approaching women and getting their
numbers, having dates, and doing everything that prings from that.
One of my favorite things to do when I'm single is to approach a woman who's being checked out by guys who are "more attractive" than me. While they're busy second-guessing themselves (even attractive guys have
excuses for not approaching women), I'll take action.
I'll walk up to the woman, make her smile in the first 10 seconds, and many times will walk away with her number about 2 minutes later.
Meanwhile, these great-looking guys are thinking, "Man, I wish I had the balls to do that!"
In my ebook I examine the most common excuses guys have for not approaching women. The "She's Out Of My League" excuse is a common one.
But whatever "excuse program" is running in your head,the fundamental solution is to consciously choose to take action in spite of it.
My ebook describes in detail many psychological tactics to "trick" yourself into acting, making it much easier. You'll be blown away by how many numbers you can get.
And if you do it without being attached to the outcome, it actually makes the process FUN.
Approach just to make a woman's day, or just to practice, rather than getting all uptight about whether or not you'll walk away with a number.
Have fun with it. Be loose. Good things will come.
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QUESTION:
"DOESN'T A GUY WHO TRIES TOO HARD TO IMPRESS A GIRL JUST GET BLOWN OFF?"
Uh ... yep!
And the average guy unfortunately does exactly this. He believes he must IMPRESS a woman to get her to like him.
The funny thing is, women are NOT impressed by men who are obviously trying to impress them.
Women ARE impressed by guys who are mature enough to approach them and who can do so without showing too many outer signs of being nervous or trying too hard.
Many times you THINK you look all uptight just because you know you FEEL uptight inside, but if you focus on talking slowly, making eye contact, and being outwardly calm, SHE'LL NEVER KNOW you're nervous on
the inside.
So you'll get her number.
Then you'll get a bit more confident and less nervous on your next approach, which will help you get another number.
And so on, and so on...
See the Cycle of Success? It just gets easier and easier as you become better and better at approaching and get more and more numbers.
So, you CAN rid yourself of the ineffective habit of trying to impress a woman when you approach. Instead,focus on making a real connection, using my Three Steps I share in all my products.
Soon, with practice, you'll be getting plenty of numbers, EASILY.
But it all starts with you taking action. Make the world your Practice Field.
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QUESTION:
"DON'T YOU NEED A SMILE OR EYE CONTACT IN ORDER TO GET THE O.K. TO APPROACH A GIRL AND HAVE A CHANCE?"
No, no, na-na-no!
Men who are successful at approaching women do not wait around looking for "signals" that a woman may find them attractive.
Occasionally you may get a signal, but most of the time you won't.
Practice your approach enough, keep it simple, and the CONFIDENCE (or at least lack of nervousness) you'll display will often make the woman BECOME interested in you.
See?
She'll get interested in you because of your ACTIONS, not so much because of how you LOOK.
Again, women are more attracted to traits like CONFIDENCE, HUMOR, and MATURITY than they are to LOOKS.
An average looking guy who has enough confidence to approach women, and the street-smarts to do it in a cool, mature way will have more success than a good-looking guy who acts all nervous and does things
that are cheesy or stupid.
By the way, I often get letters from guys who ARE good-looking but have NEVER IN THEIR LIVES approached an attractive woman in public.
So for those of you still clinging to the excuse that you need to be better looking than you are to have success with women, STOP DELUDING YOURSELF.
The key to success is in your SKILLS, not in your LOOKS.
So the obvious question here is:
WHERE ARE YOU GOING TO GET THESE SKILLS?
If I were you, I definitely would NOT go to thebookstore. You'll find almost every book is written to help women help their existing RELATIONSHIPS, not to help men build ATTRACTION.
And if you're a man and you want a relationship, first you must learn how to build attraction.
However, there is one book that will teach you EXACTLY what to say to a woman you just met, how to make your interactions with women fun and interesting, what to do to build attraction, interesting "date" ideas that move things forward, when and how to get physical, and
much more.
It's called "Any Woman, Anywhere..." which you can be reading just minutes from now from the comfort of your own computer.
And check this out:
If for some reason you aren't happy with your purchase, just ask for a refund and you'll get your money back the very next business day, no hassles.
So it's a no-risk opportunity to invest in your success with women.
Let me repeat:
If you're not having the success with women you want,YOU MUST IMPROVE YOUR SKILLS.
I suggest you check out and order my eBook "Any Woman, Anywhere". You'll find all the details below:
http://www.anywomananywhere.com/mail/11.htm
You'll be glad you did.
Your Coach,
Kevin B.
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